tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post7884994020599653797..comments2023-09-28T03:20:41.270-04:00Comments on The Weight Loss Rollercoaster: Relationship ChangesSandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02400904095865742386noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-21993536886765820252010-05-31T11:53:04.516-04:002010-05-31T11:53:04.516-04:00"He took pictures of the city and I looked at..."He took pictures of the city and I looked at them on the camera."<br /><br />How about setting a goal gift of a new camera for yourself. For instances like the story you told AND because you're going to love the way you look in them again!!!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15766642418925063957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-62916240182812819452010-05-30T09:51:27.456-04:002010-05-30T09:51:27.456-04:00How nice to hear an honest account of how a succes...How nice to hear an honest account of how a successful marriage has worked. It's not all rainbows and lollipops but hard work and commitment. I have been married twice and now its third time lucky (long story) but 12 years in its looking bloody fantastic. Thanks for a lovely post you are a lovely lady xxxxxxFionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02557101642178841960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-56599173803735092602010-05-29T14:27:34.273-04:002010-05-29T14:27:34.273-04:00This is fabulous. Your type of marriage is my goa...This is fabulous. Your type of marriage is my goal. So real. I think weight loss will only "enhance" your marriage... ;)Band-Babehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04261494642455058102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-89130827526666209122010-05-28T22:36:01.080-04:002010-05-28T22:36:01.080-04:00Awesome love story...I'm only 2 years into the...Awesome love story...I'm only 2 years into the marriage and I hope I have such a successful relationship as you somewhere down the road.Cindylewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14540643788281963704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-82153334156361740692010-05-28T22:02:13.185-04:002010-05-28T22:02:13.185-04:00Great post Sandy. Sounds like you have a GREAT ma...Great post Sandy. Sounds like you have a GREAT marriage to me!Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03612121609893900847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-51293714860524225742010-05-28T18:21:25.357-04:002010-05-28T18:21:25.357-04:00Great post...very heartfelt and it sounds like you...Great post...very heartfelt and it sounds like you 2 are rock solid...I can't imagine why others think you may not survive...who cares what they think!!! Thanks for sharingGirl Bandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10334455002394539268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-59799332828294204662010-05-28T15:01:33.391-04:002010-05-28T15:01:33.391-04:00I love your wedding dress! It's so "Princ...I love your wedding dress! It's so "Princess Diana!" :-)Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15187183342257251495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-60273124208680240842010-05-28T14:01:00.222-04:002010-05-28T14:01:00.222-04:00Awesome! I have tears in my eyes.Awesome! I have tears in my eyes.Amanda Kiskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035180757671095192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-77202073728837854792010-05-28T12:40:56.601-04:002010-05-28T12:40:56.601-04:00Sandy - this was an awesome post and came at the p...Sandy - this was an awesome post and came at the perfect time for me. Thank you!DBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12171014224700094700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-82494699021364191532010-05-28T11:36:46.650-04:002010-05-28T11:36:46.650-04:00It was a lovely post and picture! Got to love the...It was a lovely post and picture! Got to love the 80's. :) We just celebrated 21 years yesterday. I related to so many of your comments. I have occasionally asked DH if it was our wedding day and he could have a 15 min video in his mind of what our future would hold, would he still do it? We both say yes, even though the road hasn't always gone the way we thought it would. The most important thing is that we traveled it together. I wouldn't change a thing. Thanks for sharing. :) Happy weekend!Janicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06852600785672769143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-26727379263628192342010-05-28T10:30:46.989-04:002010-05-28T10:30:46.989-04:00Beautiful post! And I relate to so much...though ...Beautiful post! And I relate to so much...though our marriage is just 15 years old this year. <br /><br />Since I was "thin" when I met and married DH, my losing weight will not change a thing, I am pretty sure. Except I am happier, which means WE are happier. <br /><br />Love your love story. Lucky DH you have!!!!Genhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11414571860592267584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-1849130316208133732010-05-28T09:58:15.539-04:002010-05-28T09:58:15.539-04:00What a beautiful post!!! The wedding pic is gorge...What a beautiful post!!! The wedding pic is gorgeous. Thanks for sharing :-)carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15254193966341752813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-6175167107006386382010-05-28T09:21:48.522-04:002010-05-28T09:21:48.522-04:00That was wonderful to read. No wonder your marriag...That was wonderful to read. No wonder your marriage has survived all the rocky patches with the two of you being so supportive of each other, respecting each other most of the time, and having the good sense to forgive and forget all the fights and frictions and not fester over things. <br /><br />Just clear the air and move on I say! Nursing hurts is fatal to relationships. Keep up all the good work and you'll grow old disgracefully together! xxSparklerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05490306062512171500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-33613630737925393712010-05-28T02:29:48.656-04:002010-05-28T02:29:48.656-04:00Oh jeez, for a second there, I thought I wasn'...Oh jeez, for a second there, I thought I wasn't going to be able to comment. There was a gremlin in the comp.<br />What a beautiful, heartfelt post. I think all of us that have been married for so long get exactly what you're saying. Marriage IS hard work and we have to improve on it every day. Love your pretty wedding pic. :)THE DASH!https://www.blogger.com/profile/08658679261310931377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-69591772569296646262010-05-28T01:19:03.372-04:002010-05-28T01:19:03.372-04:00I love your wedding pic! Another great post by th...I love your wedding pic! Another great post by the infamous SANDY! Keep on rockin baby!Nellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805501890595353794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-45654283266736770342010-05-27T22:46:39.686-04:002010-05-27T22:46:39.686-04:00What a great post! I truly think that marriage is...What a great post! I truly think that marriage is too easy to get out of now-a-days. My husband and I got married in 1994 divorced in 2003 and remarried in 2007. Looking back we were just pissed off. Divorce was complete in one month. We probabally could have worked it out. We have this thing figured out now!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00329952072017284282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-26843410662667182392010-05-27T22:46:35.462-04:002010-05-27T22:46:35.462-04:00I do think it is easier for us who have been thin ...I do think it is easier for us who have been thin before to feel more secure about what will happen this time.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00603681230277050772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-63217845236498728312010-05-27T22:19:15.092-04:002010-05-27T22:19:15.092-04:00same comment as darlin.... yours is a beautiful an...same comment as darlin.... yours is a beautiful and REAL love story...real being the most important part :-)<br /><br />and sorry draz..i think that sandy fart skittles :-)CChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01947137883748295392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-9752542900281765202010-05-27T21:41:00.087-04:002010-05-27T21:41:00.087-04:00Awww - loved this post and loved that picture. Yo...Awww - loved this post and loved that picture. You're so dang sweet...I think you fart gumdrops too don't you?♥ Drazil ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/10177140029694038645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-1229278600382159862010-05-27T21:30:15.585-04:002010-05-27T21:30:15.585-04:00Ah Sandy.. yours is truly a love story (gone right...Ah Sandy.. yours is truly a love story (gone right) I think your Roller Coaster title of your blog is the perfect description of marriange And yes that Kristin got us old married farts thinking.. Just celebrated no. 31 two days ago.. I too was a skinny bride and am trying to lose the baby weight from 28 years ago (ha ha)Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10379831210874549148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-51522600327577576662010-05-27T21:20:59.499-04:002010-05-27T21:20:59.499-04:00PS You were a *beautiful* bride!PS You were a *beautiful* bride!Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242107654058014740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-56766881707002275152010-05-27T21:19:03.857-04:002010-05-27T21:19:03.857-04:00Sandy, it's great to hear such a candid overvi...Sandy, it's great to hear such a candid overview of a long, healthy and challenging marriage. Nine years in, I still feel like I'm figuring it out day to day. But mutual respect, love and common goals seem to carry us through our challenges.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242107654058014740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-62119537350878261632010-05-27T21:11:54.149-04:002010-05-27T21:11:54.149-04:00Man---You have a way with words. What a beautiful ...Man---You have a way with words. What a beautiful and real LOVE STORY! <br /><br />Thanks for sharing!Darlin1https://www.blogger.com/profile/15336353483395974173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1100636923484642954.post-79379511116606145062010-05-27T20:55:26.403-04:002010-05-27T20:55:26.403-04:00What a great post Sandy, thank you for that! I lau...What a great post Sandy, thank you for that! I laughed and cried.Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07794746954511347596noreply@blogger.com